Dr. Rose Bricker
What exactly is narcissism? Often, it’s misunderstood in our society. I think it’s because it can be so confusing. Did you know there are different types of narcissism? For example, the grandiose narcissist is often egotistical, loud, arrogant, demanding, and attention seeking. The next is the vulnerable narcissist who is caring, charming, helpful, vulnerable, and kind. They often use “love bombing” to gain your trust and admiration quickly. The third type is the covert narcissist who is the master of manipulation. They are also charming and charismatic. The fourth type is the malignant narcissist who is the dangerous predator. They view the world as hostile and can exhibit both verbal and physical aggression, as well as tight financial control. The fifth type is the communal narcissist who craves validation through their acts of kindness and generosity. The last is the self-righteous narcissist who has an inflated sense of moral integrity. Their behavior often comes across as judgmental and condescending. Being aware of the different types of narcissism helps you protect yourself from being a victim of narcissistic manipulation, control, and abuse. A narcissistic person is not always obvious! They often come across as caring, charming, and charismatic. And it’s easy to miss the red flags and get involved in a toxic and chaotic relationship that has severe consequences.
Some Narcissistic Traits
Has a grandiose sense of self. Believes the world revolves around them.
Holds the belief that they are inherently “special” and can only be understood by others who are “special.” They often feel like they deserve more than others.
Has a need for “excessive” admiration. Craves constant praise and acknowledgment from others.
Has a sense of entitlement. Expects to be given special favors.
Exaggerates their achievements or talents, may persistently lie or exploit and hurt others. Takes advantage, gaslights, manipulates, and belittles others.
Creates drama, violates the rights of others, disregards boundaries. Lacks empathy and remorse for harming others.
Fails to consider the negative consequences of their behaviors or learn from them.
Envious of others and may become resentful of others if someone receives praise or success.
These are only some, but not all, of the narcissistic traits.
If you are in a relationship with a “narcissist,” either romantically or have a family member or co-worker who displays these characteristics, you can learn how to protect yourself from this abuse. You can learn ways to set boundaries and communicate in a healthy, assertive way that allows you to prioritize your well-being. This is the way to find your peace, joy, and contentment! You are worth it!
Call me, Dr. Rose Bricker, at 520-820-4079 to schedule a 30-minute complimentary meet and greet appointment to discuss your options. There are ways to heal from this abuse!